“you’re so lucky” or “you don’t have to worry” are two phrases that actually mean “I’m too lazy to do the work”.
I hear things like “you’re in great shape”. (And I am for 50 years).
“you’ve a gift for selling” (yes I am good at this).
Or..
“Not everyone is like you” (this is true too).
These are all phrases which talk about the person using them, and if that’s you I hope you realise it.
The fact is actually that I give up and sacrifice way more than most people do, in order to achieve what I want.
For example, take food.
I don’t eat carbs and zero sugar, well very minimal amounts. This makes my mind very clear, I burn fat for fun and I don’t gain weight. This means I can eat the things I like such as cheese and meat fat. This was a life changing decision.
I fast for 14 hours every day.(every day).
I don’t drink alcohol. So when you’re out getting drunk and wasting the day after I’ll be busy working on my next goal.
People say “Yeah but I relax and tell the truth and network this way”. – bullshit, find another way.
I give up toxic people.
Yes I don’t give toxic people the time of the day, if they serve no purpose in assisting me in some way.
I give up business activities that do not work, or help me progress.
There are more but you get the idea?
I’m not average because I practise being not average.
This is how I make it look easy, through giving up and sacrifice.
Mostly this is all down to sheer bloody mindedness and determination.
Find your determination, find your fight, find your goal.